Picking the Right Toy for You & Your Partner
Sex toys have the power to completely transform your love life so why not try some out tonight?
Sex toys. Two tiny little words that are enough to send some men running for the hills or blinking in confusion. Unlike women, men arent usually encouraged to make toys a big part of their sex life. Thats not fair though, as the right sex toy can completely transform an erotic moment whether its alone or with a partner. So to help you out a little, weve put together a guide to everything you need to know about sex toys for gay men. Then youll be able to go on and buy some with complete confidence!
Simple can sometimes be the best
If youre a beginner, then start off small. It can be really tempting to go for a toy thats got all kinds of bells and whistles but keeping it simple will stop you from feeling too overwhelmed. Things like cock rings, handcuffs and blindfolds are easy enough to get to grips with but will still add a lot of excitement to sex. Once you want to step it up a little, its time to get a bit more adventurous with your next purchase
Dildos Vs. vibrators
So, what to go for a dildo or a vibrator? Theres no right or wrong answer, and its totally down to personal preference. A guy can feel a bit more in control with a dildo, while others love the extra stimulation that a vibrator can bring. Both dildos and vibrators come in all kinds of shapes and sizes, so shop around on Esmale to find the right one for you. Oh, and dont forget to pick up some water-based lube to go with your purchase!
Prostate stimulation is something that many men find extremely pleasurable. You can stimulate the prostate both internally and externally and there are toys that are suited to both. For external stimulation, most vibrators will do the trick (a little bullet can work lots of magic!), while for some internal stimulation, youll want a toy thats shaped to hit your prostate. These can look a little scary but dont panic! Their curved shape means that youll hit that magic spot again and again.
Sex toy care
Something thats often overlooked is taking care of your sex toys. Rubber toys are porous by nature, so bacteria can quickly multiply after just one use. So you should always clean them with sex toy wipes after you have used them, and for additional piece of mind you can use a condom with suitable toys. Using the right lube is vital too. Silicone lubricant will actually damage silicone toys, so always opt for a water-based one.
Buy from the best
A sex toy will be used on some of the most intimate, private parts of your body. So its vital that they are safe to use and built to last. By shopping at Esmale, you will be able to take your pick from toys that are well-crafted and will stand up to plenty of use. They have an unrivalled selection of toys for you to choose from, so why dont you treat you and your partner to something naughty? In no time at all you can totally transform your sex life!